Tuesday, September 29, 2015

Color blind or Color Brave

"Color blind or Color Brave" a Tedtallk documentary by Mellody Hobson; an inspirational discussion about "race"
When Mellody mentioned that for a moment she felt uncomfortable talking about race during this conference, I knew the feeling. For me, I do not like to necessarily talk about race or point it out. I think there have been a couple of moments in my life where I would go to a place and feel uncomfortable because I didn't see people who "looked" like me. But that did not change the way I interacted or how I felt. I honestly can' recall a time that I have ever felt ignored or unwanted because of my race. HOWEVER, with that being said, people have noticed my race and my personalty. People have seen my color and instead compared it to the attributes of how a "black" woman in our society should act. Many people, have called me an "Oreo" or a "Black White Girl".  They would say that I'm not as aggressive and "ghetto" as most black woman are. Honestly, I did not know how to take this information. In my mind, I am just me. I act how I act. I talk how I talk. No one in one race is exactly the same; talks the same; looks the same, therefore how can I not be black?

It's so funny that I watched this Tedtalk at this time because I even had an issue today at work. My co-worker and I were discussing meats. I do not eat any. She asked me if I have ever ate fried chicken. Back when I ate meat I said yes, but it isn't that serious to me. She responded by saying, "you're not really black" and this is not the first time I have heard someone say this because I do not exhibit the criteria of a "real" black female. So people do see color. I think relating to the tweet below, people believe that if you do not see color, that is a good thing. But it's not. It is just way to avoid race. As Mellody Hobson says in her Tedtalk, "The first step to solving any problem is not to hide from it." I believe by saying you do not see color is ignoring the "problem" of race. It is like someone saying "I do not see you as black, I see you as you" Although they may mean well by this statement, at the end of the day, I am black, that is apart of who I am and that cannot be disowned.

never trust anyone who says they do not see color. this means to them, you are invisible. — is


  1. I agree that it is very important to talk to youth about these issues because if we do not then they go unknown. When you are left with unanswered questions then that is where stereotypes come from. In order to stop these stereotypes from happening we need to educate youth and teach them.

  2. Thanks for sharing your personal experience in regards to race and false stereotypes. I went through a similar situation in a meat market last month. When I approached an employee he said, "What can I get for you, fried chicken"?. When I said no, he said,"Isn't that what you eat every night". He thought it was a joke but I did not find it funny. Race was seen here. Otherwise, he would not have made those stereotypical comments.

  3. THanks for this post and for your comments on so many people's blogs this week!

  4. Race should be recognized in a positive manner. I also touched up some of this in my blog, we should be able to talk about our race without fear or embarrassment.